Getting in Touch with YOUR INNER BiTcH 2/7 - 2/13

Getting in touch with your inner BITCH

February 7, 2011

"I have a simple philosophy. Fill what's empty. Empty what's full. And scratch where it itches"

- Alice Roosevelt Longworth

- It is time time to fill up those water bottles and empty the soda bottles. And scratch the palm of your hand because I smell money coming your way this week.

February 8, 2011

What could be better than the inner BITCH doubled? Or tripled, quadrupled, increased exponentially? Think of the energy created when string women get together?

-It is time for strong women to come together and take a stand or make a difference in life and sometimes that just means you have to get in touch with your inner BITCH!

February 9, 2011

An inner Bitch Reminder: "Bitch" rhymes with "rich." Think about it.

- Lets get rich bitch! LOL

February 10, 2011

An inner bitch History Lesson: On this date in 1675 (maybe 1676), Mary Rowlandson was taken captive by Native Americans. She later wrote the first "captivity narrative" about the experience, becoming the frist bestselling author in the United States.

-It is nice to take the time out to learn a little history!

February 11, 2011

Your inner BTICH knows there are probably plenty of things on your to-do list; she just wants to make sure at least some of those things involve pleasing the most important person in you life- YOU

-What number are YOU on YOUR to-do list.

February 12 & 13, 2011

Taking care of business, inner BTICH style: As Abraham Lincoln once said, "Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today"

-Make sure you got every thing done on your to-do list DONE!

Have a nice and safe weekend remember getting in touch with your inner bitch deos not mean you act like a bitch!

Getting in Touch with YOUR INNER BiTcH 1/31 - 2/6

Getting in touch with YOUR inner BITCH!

January 31, 2011:

Today is "Think Positive Day" Banish all negative thoughts about yourself. Repeat as necessary.

- Ladies it is time to STOP thinking negative about yourself. Take the negative and replace it with ALL positive the sooner you do this the better you will feel about yourself.

February 1, 2011

When the going gets tough, your inner BITCH asks: "A problem or an opportunity?" Then she decides how best to respond.

-When things get tough in your life (which will often happen) you have to either see that problem as a problem or an opportunity. Now if you are not seeing this as an opportunity you are still not in touch with your inner BITCH yet!

February 2, 2011

Your inner BITCH knows that , shadow or no shadow, winter is going to last however long it lasts.

-PUT THE SPRING JACKET BACK IN YOUR CLOSET!!! IT IS NOT TIME YET!

February 3, 2011

Your inner BITCH wants you to keep this one simple rule in mind at all times: You deserve the best and nothing less.

-If you are still second guessing yourself go out and buy a nice pair of expensive shoes and tell yourself you deserve nothing but the best.

February 4, 2011

"Remember, lust makes you stupid"

-Nicole Hollander

That's why your inner BITCH wants you to ask, "What am I thinking?" before you hop into bed with someone.

-If your so in lust with him and thinking about giving up the goods earlier than expeciated, wait about 2 weeks and see how he treats you. If you feel like a queen that you are after those two weeks then get your freak on gurl! (PLEASE PRACTICE SAFE SEX)

February 5 & 6, 2011

Your inner BITCH knows that satisfying one's curiosity is a good thing. Perhaps start with finding out just what Waitangi Day is all about.

-Go and find out what Waitangi Day is all about. I did!

Have a nice and safe weekend remember getting in touch with your inner bitch deos not mean you act like a bitch!

The Run Down

So this has been a crazy week for me. And the week is not even over yet! I had to come to terms with a lot of things. My life is taking a major turn yet again and this time I have to cut back on a few things in order to keep afloat in this thing called life. January is about to come to a close and I feel that I'm doing the things I set out for myself. So here is the run down:

First things First Weight:

I have not been working out as much as I should have but I am eating a little more healthier. So that is always a good thing right? Me and some of my family members are going to Cancun, Mexico. So my goal is to be bathing suit ready by then. I know I can do it. (please keep in mind i said bathing suit ready and not a two piece) I'm trying to go down 4 sizes! YES YOU READ IT RIGHT 4. So lets say so if I was a size 10 that means a size 4 is what I would be going down to. So just pray for me. As always I am willing to work out with people just as long as you not running. I can do the light jogging (outdoors only. I don't like running on the treadmill).

Second:

Last week I was in such a slump that my home girl Bobby came to visit me and bring some cheer to me. So I cook dinner and we played some Just Dance 2 and MJ on Wii. It was a lot of fun to have her around. I found out that when she is at home all she does is watch cartoons (what a big ass kid). But it was what I needed to get out of my slump. Sometimes God just knows the right people to place in your life at the right time. And I thank God everyday for the people that are in my life.

Third:

I said to myself I was going to start getting in touch with my inner BITCH. I think my blog is the perfect place to do. Not sure how I'm going to do it yet but stay on the look out for that.

Breaking Point

I'm real close to that BREAKING POINT with just about everything! I think the only thing that is getting me through the days is music and my very close but expensive friend Henny!

Why I Cry Alone

Very few people have seen me cry.

To many people I may seem like the type of person that does not cry often. Truth of the matter is I cry very often. More than people may know.

I cry when I'm happy,

I cry when I'm sad,

I cry when things don't go my way,

I cry when I have lost a loved one,

I cry from a broken heart,

I cry because I miss my grandmother,

I cry because I love him and I wonder if he loves me back,

I cry because at times I feel lost,

I cry because I'm free,

I cry because I'm over weight,

I cry from laughing so hard,

I cry because I love God,

I cry from watching a touching movie,

I cry alone because I don't want people to see me at my worst. Growing up in my family I have come custom that if you cry it is a sign of weakness and not having it together. So for many years I have cried alone I never even really called anyone crying. One day I hope and pray that I get to share my tears with someone that is willing to hear me cry and not take it for granted or use it against me. Until then I will continue to cry alone.

To Perm or Not to Perm that is the question

OK so it I can't really remember the last time I put a perm in my hair but I am way over due for another one! I am now thinking if I should join the "natural hair club" or stick with my creamy crack! I was thinking if I don't get a perm that I would put a weave in my hair to protect it while it is going though "THE CHANGE"!

I have a fear that if I go natural it is not going to look right on me. I have been going so long with a perm I'm not sure if I would even know how to do my hair if it was natural. But I am going to weigh out my options and do my research on everything. I am in no rush to make a choice now but I guess we will find out soon enough.

It is time

So the other day I was on facebook and seen this Video on my friend Lynessa status feed.

When I seen this video and what it is about it brought tears to my eyes.

I have friends that are close to me and gay. And it brings so much pain to my heart that they are being judge by the same people that was friends with them before they came "out".

I feel that we as a whole need to come together and STOP hating against one another.

It is 2011 and this should be the year to change all of this hating.

Some people may say it is easier to judge a book by its cover but you will never know what that book is about unless you open it and READ THE WORDS and understand the author!

Dance with my father

So last week Saturday I went to a party with my father. And while he was getting it in on the dance floor getting down with his bad St. Kitts self! Me and my father did something we have not done in a while. WE HAD FUN TOGETHER!!!

While I was loving watching my father dance is ass off! I started to think how much more fun he would be having if my mother was alive! Even though my mother was not there to enjoy her self I shared a dance with my father and it was like my mother was dancing with my father again! I don't have that many fun memories with my father but I think my dancing with my father comes in second place! I pray that I will get that dance with him again once I get married!

Guess Who is Back

I'm Back!!!! I know I have been gone for way too long. But I'm back and I have a lot to tell you. First things first HAPPY NEW YEAR! I plan to make this new year better than the last! For the new year I said I was going to get closer with God and develop a better relationship with him. I would also like to get a better understanding of the bible so I plan on taken some bible study classes. Some of the things I plan on implementing in the New Year I kinda started that early than I wanted to. But you know what they say there is no time better than the present! I am done with the dieting (will explain in a later blog). I am just going to eat more healthier things. And last but not least have God continue to work on me to being a better me!